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Paul & Jordan

June 19, 2027  ·  Kiawah Island, South Carolina

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Our Story

How It All Began

Paul and Jordan — the early days

The Beginning

When you know, you know.

Some love stories begin with a glance across a crowded room. Ours began just after Paul moved across the country, when two lives—unknown to each other until then—crossed paths at exactly the right God given moment.

In true Paul fashion, he took charge—naming the time and place and picking Jordan up for their very first date. Little did he know, that simple gentlemanly gesture meant a lot to this Southern girl. He also somehow chose one of the nicest sushi spots in the city without really meaning to (very on brand), setting the tone for a special evening from the start. What began as a simple first date turned into hours of effortless conversation, laughter, and finding excuses to linger just a little bit longer.

Not ready to say goodbye, we continued our evening at the St. Regis hotel bar, where we shared our first kiss. Each time we return, we can’t help but smile as we’re reminded of the exact table where our story began.

Somewhere between the sashimi and the espresso martinis, it stopped feeling like just a first date and started feeling like the beginning of something God had planned all along. Jordan even called her mom the next morning and said, “Mama, he is the one.”

A moment together

Growing Together

We are happiest when we are exploring, together.

The months that followed felt like the beginning of something we’d both been waiting our whole lives for—a season of growth, adventure, and a partnership grounded in trust, respect, and genuine admiration for one another.

Together, we created a beautiful life shaped by new places, cherished traditions, and the simple joy of becoming best friends. Along the way, Jordan introduced Paul to his first Masters Tournament, while Paul took Jordan flying for the first time, each sharing a part of their world that helped shape who they are today.

We grew close with each other’s families, blended our lives together, and settled into our home in Brookhaven, Georgia. We also welcomed the most cherished member of our household—our Pomeranian, Birdie—who quickly became the center of our world.

From weekends spent exploring close to home to adventures across the world, every trip, milestone, and ordinary day in between brought us closer together. With each new memory, we weren’t just building a life together—we were creating a home in one another.

The proposal

The Question

There was never a doubt. There was only ever yes.

What started as a relaxing vacation to conclude the most meaningful and impactful year of our lives—filled with hope as we looked to the new year ahead—quickly became a trip we would cherish forever.

Paul knew he wanted to propose on this vacation. He just needed the right moment to find him.

It did—on a sandbar in the middle of the crystal-clear waters off the island of Eleuthera. When the boat anchored and Paul took in the scene—the open sky, the endless blue, and the slim chances of Jordan expecting it to happen in the middle of the ocean—he knew this was it.

He slipped the ring into the zipper pocket of his swim trunks, trusted it to the Bahamian ocean, and waded in. In true fashion, Jordan was blissfully unaware while exploring the sandbar.

He got down on one knee, and as he asked the most important question of her life, Jordan felt an overwhelming sense of peace and clarity as she answered yes. For two people who never needed long to be sure about each other, the answer had been clear long before the question was ever asked.

And now, as we look toward our future that is so full and bright, we are deeply grateful to the Lord for His timing, His faithfulness, and for having His hand in our story all along.

A Few of Our Favorite Moments

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The Day

Wedding Details

Ceremony

4:00 PM

The Chapel at The Sanctuary

Kiawah Island, South Carolina

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Cocktail Hour

5:00 PM

Venue Name TBD

Kiawah Island, South Carolina

Reception

6:00 PM

Mingo Point

Kiawah Island, South Carolina

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This is an adults-only celebration. We adore your little ones — and hope they enjoy a wonderful evening of their own while you join us for the night.

The People We Love

Wedding Party

His Side

Jesse Haffley

Jesse Haffley

Best Man

Tor Anderson

Tor Anderson

Groomsman

Erik Haugan

Erik Haugan

Groomsman

Ben Salaba

Ben Salaba

Groomsman

Milos Ristanovic

Milos Ristanovic

Groomsman

Jay Higgins

Jay Higgins

Groomsman

Her Side

Kristen Lawson

Kristen Lawson

Maid of Honor

Ashley Hicks

Ashley Hicks

Bridesmaid

Taylor Quillian

Taylor Quillian

Bridesmaid

Johanna Strong

Johanna Strong

Bridesmaid

Missy Scherber

Missy Scherber

Bridesmaid

Laura Larson

Laura Larson

Bridesmaid

Getting Here

Travel & Stay

We’re so excited to celebrate with you on beautiful Kiawah Island — a private barrier island about 25 miles south of downtown Charleston, roughly a 45-minute drive from Charleston International (CHS). Below are a few of our favorite places to stay nearby.

The Sanctuary Hotel

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On-site — the ceremony venue

The crown jewel of Kiawah Island. This Forbes Five-Star oceanfront hotel sits steps from the beach and is home to world-class dining, a renowned spa, and impeccably appointed rooms. The closest and most luxurious option — and the heart of where our weekend unfolds.

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Kiawah Island Villas

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On the island

Resort-managed villas nestled among Kiawah’s live oaks, lagoons, and oceanfront dunes. A great fit for couples or small groups who want more space and a kitchen, while still enjoying full access to resort amenities — pools, tennis, beach gear, and more.

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Kiawah Resort Homes

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On the island

Spacious private homes managed by the resort, ideal for families or groups wanting to share a place on the island. Many feature private pools, gourmet kitchens, and sweeping marsh or ocean views — a true home away from home for the weekend.

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Andell Inn

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4 miles from venue

A boutique inn with genuine Southern warmth, steps from the shops and restaurants of Freshfields Village. Relax by the saltwater pool, sip cocktails on The Porch, or spread out in a suite with a full kitchen. A beautiful home base for the weekend.

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Vacation Rentals on Kiawah

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On the island

For families or groups looking for more space, Kiawah Island has a wide selection of private homes and villas available on Airbnb and VRBO. Wake up steps from the beach with a full kitchen, private pool, and all the room you need to spread out.

Charleston Area Hotels

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~30 miles from venue

For those looking for a more budget-friendly option or planning to explore the city, Charleston offers a wide range of hotels at every price point. It’s a 45-minute drive to the island, but a great base for anyone extending the trip to see one of America’s most beautiful cities.

Find a Hotel

Kiawah Island is one of the South’s most sought-after summer destinations — and our wedding falls right at peak season. We strongly encourage you to reserve your accommodations as soon as possible. Availability at The Sanctuary and across the island fills quickly, and we want you to have the experience you deserve.

Registry

A Gift, If You Wish

Your presence is the greatest gift of all. But if you’d like to celebrate us with something more, we’ve registered at the following.

Retailer TBD

Thoughtfully curated pieces for our home together.

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Retailer TBD

Meaningful gifts for the adventures ahead.

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